What is love to boys and even men?

Why are so many boys and men hurting girls and women feelings when it comes to love? They play around with their feelings, and then hurt them. This really hurts, and I am speaking in knowledge of this. They held you on and then shoot you down when feelings are so high that you think you love them. Or for some they will drop you and pick you up again like they can treat you anyway they want to. Say things that sound great at the time to come and find it was a lie, and they were playing games because they never really cared. But my question is why? Why mess around with your emotions and lead to the water, but leave you to drown when they never wanted be with you anyway? What's the out come on their side from that when karma comes back two times harder than what was done? I think if they know that they don't want nothing but what you have than they shouldn't even stop and come your way. It's trouble at your door step, but at the time it seems like a friendship, care, and than love, and that's nothing they want. Why are boys standers they set for their self so low? As in how they want others to view them and how they treat people who love them? This isn't fair that boys and men do this to Beautiful ladies that will do so much for them.

Teen Relationships

Teens are now dating, and it seems like there are a lot of their relationships aren't safe. There are some relationships that are good, but the ones that are bad need to have more light shined on them because the memories that shape them into who they are goes with them throughout their life, and if we can help and stop what's going on then we should make the effort to do so.


Abusive relationships: "Dating or domestic abuse occurs when one partner uses different types of abusive behavior to gain POWER and CONTROL over the other partner".It's becoming more accepted than ever. Question is why? Is it because the people that's being hurt is not speaking up? Or no one cares to do anything after they're told? Well if these are the reasons that nothing too big is happening to change abusive relationships, well think what if it was your child or family member. This means we need to make the effort to talk to our loved ones and tell them that they can come to us when they need us.Even if it's nothing big.   


Violent relationships: This usually leads to death in teens. And also can be a reason why teens who commit unexplained suicides are doing so. Homicide is the second leading cause of deaths in teens. This needs to stop now, and the longer it goes on the worse it gets. No one wants this to be them, nor do anyone want it to be a loved one,so more needs to be done to stop relationship violence. People make a big deal when the after effect comes around, but none when it's happening. What's going on? The violence and abuse needs to stop in it's tracks because it can't go on no longer.


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